{"id":38,"date":"2018-09-27T15:54:45","date_gmt":"2018-09-27T15:54:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/modernbossmama.com\/?p=38"},"modified":"2018-09-29T13:12:47","modified_gmt":"2018-09-29T13:12:47","slug":"gone-for-60-days","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/modernbossmama.com\/index.php\/2018\/09\/27\/gone-for-60-days\/","title":{"rendered":"Gone for 60 Days"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Maternity Leave: Day 1<\/p>\n<p>Decided I wanted to document how I am spending my 60 days of maternity leave because I want to be intentional about how I am spending my (last) leave ever. As a very ambitious working mom, I rarely have a moment to go to the restroom, do my hair, or sometimes even eat so reflecting on life and taking some time for me is an intention I set at the start of this leave. I am not sure yet if this will even get off the ground or what shape it will take, so bear with me on this whim.\u00a0 I am however the planner and creator of to do lists and dogged pursuer of checking things off said list so I have ambitious hopes of perhaps creating a blog- but that would take more ambition than I have on Day 1 ( still heavily medicated post-C section) can handle. So we\u2019ll start with the intention to document and journal each day of my leave. <strong>[Edit: on Day 14 I got my blog up and running] and am now back posting the first two weeks that I wrote in word and late nights in Notes on my phone].<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Reflections: Newborns are precious, but at this state a little bit boring. Baby is a healthy boy, and he is<em> hungry<\/em>. Since I&#8217;m breastfeeding this means I spend a lot of time just sitting, staring, and thinking and then came up with this idea to start the blog. But it also means I have been playing around on my phone a lot and sigh, been checking my work email despite a promise to myself not to. I did\u00a0 exhibit restraint on replying to emails because of my drug induced state. Technology today makes it too easy to stay connected. I planned to recharge during this maternity leave and disconnect but we will see. During my last two maternity leaves, I turned off my email on my phone but I have not reached that point yet. Perhaps, because I&#8217;ve reached a point in my career where my role is much more significant.. am finding it hard to completely turn off.<\/p>\n<p>Positive Thought(s) of the Day:\u00a0 A positive outlook has always been important to me, so I plan to close every post with a positive thought of the day, no matter how small.\u00a0 Today I am enjoying the comforts of home and being cared for- the house is clean, the girls are entertained, and dinner is cooked. I am beyond lucky to have family close and far willing to chip in.\u00a0 I&#8217;m also enjoying being on paid leave for the next 12 weeks ( a policy that just went into effect THIS year at work), something less than 15% of women in the private sector don&#8217;t have the benefit of in the United States. I&#8217;m also very thankful that even though Hubs works for a small company, he is afforded 2 weeks of paternal leave to help out while I recover.<\/p>\n<p>See below for the little face that was my muse in starting this blog:<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-41\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/modernbossmama.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/IMG_2412.jpg?resize=300%2C300&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/modernbossmama.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/IMG_2412.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/modernbossmama.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/IMG_2412.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/modernbossmama.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/IMG_2412.jpg?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/modernbossmama.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/IMG_2412.jpg?w=320&amp;ssl=1 320w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Maternity Leave: Day 1 Decided I wanted to document how I am spending my 60 days of maternity leave because I want to be intentional about how I am spending my (last) leave ever. 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