Celebrations

Day 20:

Today Baby J is four weeks old! We make a pretty big deal about birthdays ( and really anything worth celebrating) in our family. If we could celebrate birthdays for a week, I would. Recently my daughter threw a fit after her birthday about not getting enough presents, which was very much not true. My Cambodian guilt kicked in and I felt the need to help the girls understand how much we have. I found an organization  called Pop Up Birthdays that provides personalized birthday boxes for kids in foster care that may not otherwise get to have a celebration. This allowed us to have a healthy discussion about how some kids don’t even have the means to have parties, much less have gifts. The program requires donors to provide a “party in a box” with a theme of the child’s choosing, party décor, favors, snacks, and a gift that the kid wants, needs, and reads. The girls have already asked to do another box- so we may do them for the months of their birthdays.

Positive Thought of the Day: Having everything we need and its a long weekend with a lot of family time planned!

Cold Turkey

Day 3:

The Day I actually started transferring my shorthand and reflections to the computer. Feeling accomplished. Also the day I am weaning myself off the Percocet. It helped with the pain but made me feel crazy- my temperature would swing greatly and I felt like the world was slightly fuzzy and out of focus. Not to mention the nausea. I said ‘wean, but I don’t do anything half ass- I just decided to be done and stopped taking it. Pain level is absurd but hard core medicine scares me- I’ll stick to the 600 mg motrin, thank you.

Positive Thought of the Day: I just paid bills for the last of our design projects. Although I have worked extremely hard for lifestyle, I know there are many people in the world that don’t have what we do. We not only have an abundance of financial wealth, but are also rich in love and family. I do not take this for granted. Maybe I’ll delve into the topic of Cambodian Guilt sometime soon, but not today. Office redesign picture included ( big thanks to Adentro Designs – can’t wait to spend more time blogging in the office!